Not dating my best friend
It’s got the potential to obliterate a long-term friendship in a few short seconds.
And, aside from the occasional mutual attraction successes, I think it’s somewhere friends shouldn’t go, especially if you’ve been pals for an eternity.
This is the principle behind lotteries, dating, and religion. It's light: There's courting; there's the interesting, exciting text messaging and flirting. When you start getting into relationships, you really start having to consider each other in your lives, and I think that's really important. But one thing I can say from my dating experience is that a physical attraction will only take you so far.
However, it’s applicable to both men and women and, having had personal experiences on both sides, I can say it’s not a great scenario to be in.Ask yourself why you’re still friends and nothing more.We talk and tell each other things and there’s a level of connectivity, caring, and even adoration.There’s nothing wrong with that – liberal approaches to sexuality, and indeed sex, is healthy.It’s just that, when you let your bestie know that’s how you feel about them, it can get a bit weird – especially if the person isn’t interested in that way.